The Rockin' Rocco Family!: December 2005

Monday, December 26, 2005

Banshee Claws

MeLissa received a very pleasant "late" Christmas present last night. Banshee Claws came in for a visit (she was thrilled to do so since it was raining!) and actually stayed for a while. She also humored MeLissa by wearing the Santa hat. It looks like we may have some fun Christmas cards next year...

More Christmas Memories

We really did have a pretty nice Christmas despite being away from our families this year (and despite Christmas dinner not arriving - we'll have to try the honey baked route some other time). Santa Rocco was a little more sublime this year than last year given his eye surgery, but he still managed to bring plenty of Christmas cheer to our home.

He found some excellent things to make MeLissa smile. Delicate white gold and tanzanite earrings were a wonderful surprise. Then there were entertaining books from Martha Stewart to give her ideas once she begins helping others plan weddings and other events (and there's quite a few things that will make our own parties quite wonderful, too!). A bioelectric shield to balance her body's energy and protect her from negative outside sources was just what the doctor ordered (literally!). But, due to its sentimental value, the mini grand father clock Mark found which showcases Thomas Kincade's Light of Peace along with playing Somewhere Out There (one of MeLissa's favorite songs!) is probably the most cherished gift she received.

Mark's gifts from MeLissa were a combination of fun and practical gifts. He received some breakaway pants, notebooks, pens and sticky notes (standard gift fare for Mark while he's in school), a slinky (which Pixie also thinks is quite amusing!), a Three Stooges Video and a giant martini glass! This gift paired very well with a gift from Mark's parents to us - slipper stir sticks! To make travelling less frustrating for Mark, a gift of monogrammed luggage straps in "yum yum" yellow, were wrapped up tight! To keep him well dressed, socks and boxers were just right. To round things out, one more thing was found - a shirt to express Mark's true feelings on fruitcake - a food he's glad isn't avaiable year round! The shirt is all the more fitting since MeLissa's family (with a few exceptions) actually likes fruitcake and eats a good bit during the holidays; thus, disproving Mark's theory that there is only one fruitcake in the entire world that has been passed for centuries. This cake might exist, but only because it hasn't been given to the MeLissa's family!

We received a few other gifts as well - ornaments and candies from Mark's parents (can you guess which ornament they gave?) along with some fun presents the color of our Christmas tree that will come in handy! And, from our friends Lisa and Rob, a bottle of wine and some very nice handmade candle holders and a handmade ornament to grace our tree!

Our only bit of disappointment for the day was that our Christmas dinner (the previously discussed honey baked ham) didn't arrive on time. Rather than let this get us down, though, we prepared a Christmas picnic which we enjoyed by our Christmas tree complete with spinach crab dip, veggies, sparkling blueberry juice and chocolate chip oatmeal cookies (sans eggs and wheat, of course!) We plan to have a post-Christmas Christmas dinner as soon as the other goodies arrive!

Oh, and just because she's so sweet with her little santa outfit on, here's another picture of our dear "Pixie Claus" to warm your heart!

Sunday, December 25, 2005

Santa Claws

Santa was very good to us this year. Despite the fact that we weren't able to visit either of our families for Christmas, we managed to have a pretty warm and fuzzy celebration at home. We even had our very own Santa Claws to keep us company - as you can see "he" was exhausted from "his" long journey last night (who knew Pixie was such an important kitty to anyone but us?!?) We wish you and yours a love and joy filled day as you celebrate our Lord's birth!

Saturday, December 24, 2005

Santa Claus is Coming To Town

Thanks to my friend Kat for reminding me of this very fun website! Click the post link above and you will be magically transported to the Santa tracking site at NORAD in Colorado Springs, Colorado. Every kid (regardless of their age -1 to 99 counts, folks!) should acquaint themselves with this site which tracks the jolly old man as he travels the world delivering toys to good little girls and boys.

Santa's already made several stops that you can check out in the earlier sightings area of the site! And, of course, there are plenty of facts about the man in red and even some celebrity sightings to amuse you!

Merry Christmas to all!

Friday, December 23, 2005

Merry Christmas to All!

We wanted to wish all of our family and friends a very Merrry Christmas! We're glad to have been able to visit with some of you during the year and we hope that we see even more of you all next year.

We thought we would leave you with an amusing picture that we found. The snowman to the right (dubbed Snowzilla) is 16 feet tall - isn't it good to know that snowmen tend to be jolly happy souls?!


web tracker

Wednesday, December 21, 2005

Preliminary Success

Mark had surgery on his left eye today. According to the surgeons, the retinal reattachment and corneal transplant surgeries both went "very well." So, now we just have to keep our fingers crossed that it all heals up as it should and that repeat surgeries will be unnecessary.

Thanks to all of you who kept Mark in your thoughts - we hope you'll continue to do so!

Monday, December 19, 2005

Honey Baked Christmas

Well, it looks like we'll actually be cooking for Christmas and New Year's after all. We were going to cheat and go out since MeLissa was feeling a little "bah humbuggy" after the whole "can't go home for Christmas" thing. She's snapped herself out of it now and so we're scheduled to have some pretty tasty vittles during the holiday week.

We ordered a trio of treats from the Honey Baked Ham Company to be the stars of our feasts - ham (of course!), turkey breast (which will probably be post holiday fare) and even some prime rib which will grace our plates on New Year's day. As for the second most important part of any holiday feast (dessert!) we'll be having a strawberry pie a la Mark (if you want the recipe, sign up for the recipe group!). MeLissa also is going to try to make oatmeal chocolate chip cookies (an Allen family favorite) and gumdrop cookies (one of MeLissa's favorite!) without eggs. This will be the first non-brownie eggless cookie attempt - wish us well! It should be a pretty sweet Christmas!

In other non-Christmas related news, Mark is enjoying his time off from school (especially since he isn't yet recovering from surgery - that's this coming Wednesday!). He's been busy studying ahead for his next quarter to make his life easier when it arrives. MeLissa has also been studying. She's making good progress on her wedding planning course. She expects to finish it in the middle of January (or sooner, if possible!) and will then get started on her event planning studies. She's still very excited about her new opportunity and can't wait until she can actually start helping people achieve their "party dreams"!

Friday, December 16, 2005

The Joy of Christmas Cards...

We have received quite a few Christmas cards already this year and are looking forward to those that will arrive in the coming days. It is always great to find something worth reading in one's mailbox, don't you think?

It seems like so long ago that the mailbox contained "desireable" mail (yes, we get the occasional birthday card, wedding announcement, etc., but in general, we're sure you agree, bills and solicitations are the norm in the mailbox and who really wants those?). Email has definitely changed the world...perhaps for the better in some respects (like being able to stay up-to-date on what friends and family are up to), but don't you find it a bit sad that our children will probably never experience the pure joy that we as children felt when a letter from a pen pal or a relative was in amongst all the "grown up" mail that came to our parents? It's hard to believe that an email could possibly elicit a level of excitement that compares, though, admittedly, it does happen on rare occasions.

We'd like to send a thank you, our dear friends and family, for allowing us to relive a little bit of the excitement from our childhood to those of you who have or will be sending us cards this year! We always enjoy hearing from you and learning what adventures you've had.

Trips to the mailbox in December are filled with anticipation for the "goodies" we'll find in the box. They say Christmas is for children - perhaps Christmas cards are the perfect way for us all to hang onto the special joy of our childhood and they make pretty nice wall decorations, too! Keep those cards coming!

Thursday, December 15, 2005

Surgery Speedbump

Yesterday was an interesting day for us. We travelled to Stanford Hospital in the morning where Mark would be having his retinal surgery which includes a corneal transplant surgery. The cornea surgery is done so that the retinal surgeon can see how the retina is doing after he fixes it. Without this add-on surgery (which, we should mention increases scheduling complexity since two surgeons are now necessary), it's nearly impossible for the retinal doctor to see if the surgery was a success or not.

The report from yesterday's procedure is that the procedure wasn't done. Somehow, the cornea never was ordered. We're sure it was a simple oversight, whether due to the strike that occured at the hospital earlier in the week or for some other reason (we've heard speculation that the corneal doctor's wife might have had a baby which we all know can send the best organized person and the best laid plans into a tail spin), but it was a bit frustrating to have spent so much time in the hospital only to learn that we'd have to do it all again (including the whole IV thing which is, truthfully, more painful for MeLissa than Mark since she's a bit phobic about sharp pointing things going into anyone's skin!), but since it's better to do things right the first time, we understand. And, on the bright side, it did allow us to run a few errands that we've needed to take care of for a while. We'll post an update on Mark's real surgery once it happens. :)

In other news, Christmas preparations for our families are finally done! We packed up the first of two boxes of goodies last night - one is on its way to Maui for Mark's parents and Grandmother and one is on its way to Tahoe City, California, for Mark's brother and his wife. We hope they like what we've put together for them! MeLissa's family's gifts will be wrappped and assembled tonight for mailing tomorrow - although the presents certainly won't make up for our absence, we hope that they'll at least make Christmas somewhat exciting for our families.

Monday, December 12, 2005

Taking Care of Business...

We had quite a few bits of "business" to take care of this weekend and we definitely made a dent! Mark's major challenge was studying for finals which he'll be taking this week. Due to his surgery which is scheduled for Wednesday (we're assuming that it will go on as planned since the Stanford Hospital workers are striking only for 24 hours), Mark had the extreme displeasure of studying a ton of information so that he could take all of his tests in two days instead of four. We're sure he'll wow them!

MeLissa busied herself with a few other tasks while he studied. Primarily, she focused on Christmas preparations (which are behind due to our cancelled trip to Colorado). We can say that the female gift recipients will be coming out very well with all the little goodies MeLissa made for them...she's even contemplating saving some of the goodies for herself! The guys are a bit harder to buy for (though MeLissa did do a pretty good bit of shopping for Mark yesterday), but they'll be treated royally, too, once all is said and done. Once everyone has had a chance to see what they've received, we'll try to post some pictures here!

In addition to Christmas "stuff," MeLissa worked a little on her wedding planning certification course. Things are going smoothly and she expects to finish the course up by mid-January at the latest. If possible, she'd acutally like to finish by the end of December - she plans to use a good portion of Mark's surgery time reading and studying to bring her closer to this goal. She's really enjoying her studies so far - they definitely are helping her to remember how much work (and fun!) it was planning our wedding. Her studies are definitely tapping into the creative side of her brain and are leading to some nifty ideas for the 5th Anniversary party we're hoping to have in 2009! Mark your calendars the evening of July 31, 2009, is sure to be fabulous!

Finally, thanks to a bit of shopping MeLissa did on Friday night, Pixie had a very fun weekend. She now knows the pure joy (and frustration) that a laser pointer can bring a kitty. She and MeLissa spent a good portion of the weekend playing with her new toy (which was supposed to be her Christmas present, but MeLissa was too anxious to have fun!). Both MeLissa and Mark get quite a kick out of seeing Pixie try to catch the red light - it is especially fun when she runs in circles or tries to catch it when it's on her paw!

As for Banshee, she wasn't too impressed by the light, but she also enjoyed her weekend. She primarily spent it in her typical fashion by hiding (either outside in her home or inside under the couch) and, in short spurts, viewing the neighborhood from oh high (she enjoys going up on our roof to look over the land). She also enjoyed some really pleasant petting sessions.

Tuesday, December 06, 2005

A Change in Plans....

Our trip to Colorado is now cancelled or at least postponed to no earlier than June 2006. We're very disappointed, but due to discovering today that Mark's left eye has followed in the right eye's footsteps by having a retinal detachment, we are simply unable to travel at this time. The change in status of Mark's eye is also disappointing, but due to the number of surgeries Mark has had on his eyes, it is not terribly unexpected.

We are sorry that we will miss seeing MeLissa's family whom we've not seen since the wedding in July 2004. We're also disappointed that we'll miss seeing our friends during this time. We were really looking forward to visiting with all of you. Hopefully, we'll be able to make the visit up next summer and with any luck, our stay in the Bay Area will be coming to an end in December 2007 at which time we'll more likely than not return to Colorado.

Until then, we hope you'll keep us in our prayers....especially Mark whom we hope has a quick recovery from this health issue. We are thankful that he's approaching a school break so that the many days he'll spend face-down will not interfere with his studies...especially since his next quarter will end with his first part of the chiropractic board exam.

Monday, December 05, 2005

The Christmas Season Kicked Off Right!

We had a busy and fabulously fun weekend! Friday night was spent hustling and bustling to get those last minute party preparations squared away. All day Saturday we busied ourselves with cooking and baking and, of course, table decorations. Everything was perfect!

Unfortunately, you probably will only catch glimpses of the various table decorations (and the festivities) because we were more focused on having a great time than we were with taking photos. If you're really curious about decor, we can probably give a pretty detailed description...all you have to do is ask!

MeLissa took a quick break to pick up Chris (her brother who's time with the USS Ronald Reagan is now officially over!) from the airport. Then it was back to the house to do a few more little things before the guests started arriving!

By the way - as a short aside - if you look in the background of this shot you can get a nice little peak at one of the "Snoopy Spots" in our house! :)

First to arrive was our friend Diane who is a chiropractic student with Mark at Life West. For being prompt, Diane won a lovely Christmas tree light necklace! Andrew, a friend and former coworker of MeLissa's was our first male attendee and, as such, was awarded with a giant candy cane (or rock as we learned they are referred to in England!) that should keep him on a sugar high for at least a month - a fitting reward for the man who kindly acted as MeLissa's surrogate stomach at PG&E by eating all the yummy things she knew she shouldn't! All our other guests, arrived shortly there after and began to partake of lemon drops, peppermintinis, apple cider, mexican crab dip, crudites and other yummy nibblers.

Once most of the guests were on hand, MeLissa let them know that Santa's reindeer (and a few friends) had been hidden throughout the house and that three of them (which were hid in very hard to find places) had special black dots that were worth a prize for those who found them! Lance & Cassie, Josephine & Kevin and Diane were the big winners in this game which lasted most of the evening caused a bit of frustration for our guests (and even MeLissa at one point who couldn't remember where she had hidden some of the reindeer the week before - good thing she made a list of their hiding spots)!

We took a break for dinner and enjoyed such things as Chili & Rice (a favorite of Mark's which he rarely has anymore due to MeLissa's allergies) and Nachos Navidad with all the trimmings. Once everyone had their fill of that and delectable desserts such as Butter-Rum Bundt Cake, Pumpkin Pie, Brownies, Peppermint Ice Cream and even a decorated gingerbread house (MeLissa's major Friday night project we might add!), it was time for more conversation and games.

MeLissa gave the guests the choice of which game they'd like to play first - the Greeting Card Toss or Pin the Nose on Rudolphina. The Greeting Card Toss won and everyone took their turn seeing how many cards they could toss into a laundry basket. Sounds easy, huh? Well, out of a possible 20 (2 rounds of 10 cards), our high score was 7 - a good showing by Kevin! Christopher, Lance and Cassandra all made excellent showings as well. It was also pretty amusing, to see just how uncooperative those Christmas cards could be!! But, probably the most amusing thing about this game was Pixie the Cat's reaction. She couldn't tell whether people were trying to throw the cards so she could pounce on them or to hit her. It was pretty amusing watching her antics as she jumped back and forth between the cards and tried to dodge those that were incoming. She's pretty agile so it was no problem!

We didn't want Rudolphina to feel unloved so we made attempts to pin her nose on after that. It was pretty funny to watch how "off" some people could be with their noses, but nothing quite compared to MeLissa's turn. Due to her balance issues as a result of her medical problems in September, MeLissa was a little "tipsy" after they turned her around (and, no, it wasn't because of the lemon drops and peppermintinis - really!). Thankfully, she had adequate supervision and made it over to Rudolphina and actually hit her nose with her red sticky! Winners in this game were Diane and Kevin for being the farthest away from Rudolphina's nose and to Cassie and Chris (we think!) for being the closest.

Once the fun and games were over, we all sat and chatted for a while until most of the guests were ready to go home and dream of sugar plums dancing in their heads. We sent them on their way with Candy Cane Bath Salts for the girls and Liqueur Coffees for the guys (we had Southern Comfort, Jack Daniels, Irish Creme, and Frangellico flavors with a few Ghiradelli chocolates ones thrown in for good measure!). Everyone was pretty happy with their treats.

The next morning, Chris, Mark and MeLissa piled into the car and set off for a whirlwind tour of San Francisco...one of the few places, it seems, that Chris hasn't visited! We drove him across the San Mateo Bridge, by what will always be Candlestick (rather than Monster) Park, through downtown San Francisco, across the Golden Gate Bridge, by San Quentin prison, and then back to Oakland Airport where he hopped out and hopped his flight back to San Diego for his final hours in that town while Mark and MeLissa took the steps necessary to return their home to it's "normal" state.

Chris is now on his way back to Colorado where he'll be recruiting for the Navy in Canon City. He's really looking forward to spending more time with his little boy Tyler since he'll be close by! We're looking forward to seeing them both in a little while when we go home for Christmas!

And, of course, plans for our next Christmas party are already being formulated in MeLissa's head, but she may be hosting a Spa products party first - stay tuned! Oh, and if any of our friends are hungry, please drop by - we have tons of yummy leftovers which we would love to share with you!

Thursday, December 01, 2005

MeLissa's Birthday!

Today was MeLissa's birthday. We're happy to report that she has yet again managed to avoid growing older and will be, as she has been for the past several years, 25! :)

The celebration started yesterday evening with a trip to the Hawaiian restaurant. We picked up some grub and then headed over to Lisa and Rob's house. We'd not seen them for a while and we thought it would be an excellent opportunity! Their house was beautifully decorated in accordance with the "Christmas decor should be up by MeLissa's birthday directive" proving yet again that Lisa and Rob are AWESOME people! :) Lisa surprised MeLissa with a little gift containing a strawberry growing kit and a sentimental gift to remind her that Lisa loves her just the way she is. On our way home, Lisa gave one more gift - a funny book of "Catmas Carols" by Laurie Loughlin. Here's a cute one for your amusement:

We Three Cats
We three cats of Orient are
Terrified to get in the car.
Why go out for celebrating?
We'll stay right where we are. Oooh....

Home is heaven. Home is good.
Home is where we get our food.
Why go out for Christmas parties?
Frankly we're not in the mood.

We're not happy with a trip yet.
Seems they always end in the vet.
These excursions are diversions
We'd just as soon forget. Oooh....

(Repeat Chorus)

Cute huh?

As for today, it was a bit rainy (including some really pelting drops at lunch!), but other than that it was a pretty good day! This evening we celebrated by going to dinner at Red Lobster followed by dessert at Cold Stone Creamery.

Mark also was very sweet and bought MeLissa a card that he really liked because he felt it really described her to a tee!

Rainbows
are people
whose lives
are bright,
shining
examples
for others.
Maya Angelou
MeLissa really appreciates the compliment Mark gave her. She hopes to follow the directions on the inside of the card which reads

Shine on, shine on,
The world needs more people like you.

Mark also presented MeLissa with The Martha Rules: 10 Essentials for Achieving Success as You Start, Build or Manage a Business. (by Martha Stewart) We're guessing that Martha didn't include "Don't get caught in insider trading scandals." After all, this is pretty much common sense, right? We're looking forward to seeing what tips she has to offer despite her straying off the righteous path briefly. :)

Also, MeLissa is now the proud owner of a lovely new bracelet watch which has a two tone dial and a heart link bracelet bands with little blue crystals in the center of each heart. She help pick the watch out and she loves it!

Today was definitely a good kick off to the next year and page of MeLissa's life and she is excited to see what 2006 holds for her!