All Wedding and No Play.....

During the year before the wedding, we enjoyed a few breaks from wedding planning by exploring our surroundings in California and beyond. We also made time to go to school for Mark - Physics and Chemistry ruled many of our weekends...

In November 2003, we took a quick trip to Las Vegas to visit with Mark's family and, thanks to Mark's great luck, we came home a little richer. Of course, if I had known that he was playing a slot machine that cost $10 every time he pulled the lever, this probably wouldn't have been the case, but I'm considering just not paying attention at what Mark's playing the next time we visit!

One of our favorite adventures was to Napa Valley. A stop by the Jelly Belly jelly bean factory in Fairfield, California, on the way was a memorable detour! Once we finished appeasing our sweet tooth, we followed Highway 29 up through the entire Napa Valley region - from Napa to Calistoga. Along the way, we found our favorite winery - V. Sattui. This winery is a family owned winery that was established in 1885. It has many award winning wines. Our favorite is the Gamay Rouge. The Off-Dry Riesling is also fabulous. We enjoyed a relaxing picnic lunch complete with wine and goodies from their store before heading on our way.

We also enjoyed traipsing around San Francisco. We participated in the Bridge to Bridge race, the Bay to Breakers race (a race with WAY too many naked old men!), and we took it upon ourselves to walk across the Golden Gate bridge - what a cool time! The views of the city are spectacular. The only nerve wracking thing is that there isn't much space between you and the cars!

We also took a hike up a "hill of death" to visit Coit Tower where we were able to view the city from on high. Here's a picture of the Bay Bridge we took while at the base of the tower which resembles a fire hose nozzle!

We spent our first 4th of July here in California in San Francisco at Pier 39 where "and the rockets red glare..." took on new meaning due to the fog. We probably won't be going to San Francisco for a fireworks show again, but it was definitely a unique experience!

In addition to San Francisco and Napa, we visited Santa Rosa to see the Charles Schulz museum. I am an avid Snoopy and Peanuts collector so I was very excited about this adventure. It was even more exciting when I won a prize by stumping the resident "Peanuts Expert." I asked him to name the three books which used peanuts comic strips to illustrate the Bible's teachings. The books - written by Robert Short are "The Gospel According to Peanuts," "Short Meditations on Peanuts," and "Parables of Peanuts." Check them out for a an uplifting read! The museum was a very cool place - even the sidewalk was in the shape of Charlie Brown Shirt Stripe!

One of our best adventures took place about a month prior to the wedding. We took advantage of a three-day weekend and traveled to Monterey. While there, we enjoyed the Monterey Bay Aquarium (see the funny lookin' penguin Mark snapped a picture of!) and took a scenic drive around the Pebble Beach golf course. One of the highlights of the visit was staying at the Centrella Bed and Breakfast Inn in Pacific Grove - the Monarch Butterfly Capital of the World! It was beautiful and terribly romantic - and a very welcome experience after we spent our first night in a motel with a horrible bed next to a very noisy gas station!

We should also mention one of our most exciting adventures - chasing a little black kitten whom I had met at the BART station all over a Safeway parking lot. That adventure had a very happy ending because Banshee joined our family. Since I lost Robin (my Nanday conure) a couple of weeks before this, Banshee, a very loving, though frequently naughty kitty, came at the perfect time to sooth my sad heart.

Other highlights included a trip to an Oakland A's game with our friends Kevin and Josephine, visiting the Oakland Zoo, and having fun in the sun at Paramount's Great America with some friends from Mark's school. We also had a Thanksgiving week visit from Uncle Max and a visit to Jack London Square in Oakland which included a fun dinner at the Old Spaghetti Factory (thanks for the tip Uncle Max!)

And how could we forget our trip home to Colorado for Christmas (especially since my brother Chris was able to be home, too) and our first home purchase together in January 2004. We upgraded from our apartment at Pinnacle City Centre to a new (for us!) town home in one of the most sought after neighborhoods in Hayward - Diamond Crossing. We didn't relish the act of moving, but we have enjoyed transforming it from a house into a home!

Wedding Mania, Part I

After the question had been popped, the planning began. We originally considered being married in Maui as but, ultimately, we decided that my church - Grace Episcopal Church in Colorado Springs, Colorado, would be the site. As for the wedding date, we originally envisioned a June wedding, but due to my brother Chris not being able to return from Iraq until July, the day was set for July 31, 2004.

We discovered that the church's reception hall would not be available due to construction in the summer of 2004. This led to a search for a suitable reception site. We decided upon Gleneagle Golf Club which boasts panoramic views of the majestic Rocky Mountains which we figured would provide awesome scenic backdrops for our wedding pictures.

For our invitations, we decided to send a die cut tri-fold design which showcased the lighthouse from the Thomas Kincade painting entitled "Beacon of Hope." Thomas Kincade's work has always captivated me so this was one of the easiest decisions. On the front of the invitation, was inscribed "Your love was a beacon....that called my heart home" - a message which was true to our hearts. We made good use of Mark's hospital stay after he was hit by a car while riding his bicycle to address the invitations and prepare them for mailing.

When deciding on our menu for the wedding celebration, we considered everything from a simple ice cream sundae bar to an Italian themed dinner. We finally decided that the perfect meal for a July wedding at a golf club was something simple; thus, hamburgers, grilled chicken breasts and brats with all the trimmings were to be served. Since we don't typically drink and since we were concerned with our guests' safety, we chose to serve Italian sodas rather than alcohol. These fun and fruity drinks were a big hit with most of the guests.

For us, the most important item on the menu - the wedding cake - had to be unique and, most importantly, yummy! If it looked pretty, all the better! We knew that the standard white wedding cake would never do. So, after sampling many delectable desserts from bakeries all over Colorado Springs, we decided that the Triple Chocolate Mousse Cake from Marigold's Cafe and Bakery would be our cake. We believe that all of our guests were thrilled with this decision.

In the area of decorations, we decided to let the natural beauty of the church shine through by only having flowers at the altar. The reception site's decor included white table clothes with navy napkins to tie in with our navy and silver wedding colors, which I chose because of the beautiful engagement ring Mark had presented to me when he proposed. Each table had a silver ship's lantern centerpiece accented with silver and navy balloons. Navy and silver M&Ms (Mark and MeLissa - M&M - get it?) were sprinkled about on the tables like confetti. We provided each table with a disposable camera to chronicle memories of the occasion. The Head Table was decorated with a floral centerpiece, lighthouse tealight holders and two sets of floral champagne glasses which would be used for the toasts. The final touch was several lighthouse windchimes which were hung from the gazebo to add to the ambiance of the occasion.

We decided that Mark and his party would wear black tuxes with vests and bow ties. Mark was in white to match me, the groomsmen were in silver and the ushers were in navy blue. Mark wore a white rose on his lapel while the other guys wore red roses. My attendants chose to wear fitted navy blue taffeta strapless bodices and matching A-line floor length skirts accented by a navy organza wrap. They all carried single red roses hand tied with greenery and a silver ribbon. White orchid leis, which they would receive from the groomsmen during the procession, completed their attire.

I wore a stunning Cinderella-style gown designed by Oleg Cassini (Jackie Onasis Kennedy's designer). The dress had a corsetted bodice with boning and simple, but elegant bead work. The skirt was composed of several layers of taffeta, the top layer of which was ornamented with lace appliques. The dress was finished with a cathedral length train (which after the ceremony became a bit of a nuisance since it didn't want to stay bustled!). I wore my hair up and accented it with a tiara with a pearl and leaf design. I also wore a traditional veil with blusher which featured scalloped edges accented by dangling tear drop Swarovski crystals. I chose matching pearl earrings, bracelet and necklace set for accessories. My bouquet was a combination of white and red roses which were hand tied and wrapped with ribbon. My sweetheart of a mother added a piece of sugar in a piece of green netting from her wedding cake to symbolize my parents' wish that our marriage be as happy and sweet as theirs. Say it with me now "Awww."

How We Came to Be

After reading all about our backgrounds, you may be wondering what brought a boy from Maui and a girl from Colorado to the altar. Look no further for your answer!

I was offered a job at a new accounting firm in August 2002. I was thrilled to finally find a firm that offered both challenging tax returns to prepare and a family-style work environment. This new location made it possible to meet my friend Sarah for lunch more often, too. One day at lunch, we discussed that Sarah's current job had a deal with a gym that was right by my work. Since I was reaching the end of my current gym membership, a gym a little closer to work and home where I'd also be able to spend time more time with my friend sounded like a good thing to check out! We decided to take a look and after some pretty decent selling on the part of a sales counselor, we joined!

As part of our membership, we (and Sarah's mom who'd also joined in) each would receive 2 free sessions with a personal trainer. I didn't want to go alone so I tagged along with Sarah and her mom who were meeting with a trainer named "'Rocco." I was sure Rocco would be a muscle-bound meathead (or a mob hitman!). Fortunately for us both, I was wrong - "Rocco" just happened to be a trainer that I had seen previously and who had made a positive impression (in other words I thought he was quite a cutie) from afar on previous trips to the gym!

After this first session, we three decided to each have our own second session. MeLissa enjoyed having Rocco aka Mark all to herself - she found him charming and fun...perhaps a little too charming and fun. She was just sure that he must be a "love 'em and leave 'em kind of guy." At the time, I was not looking for a committed relationship (she'd just had 2, or was that three, in a row that ended painfully), so I just looked to enjoy Rocco's company when I bought more training sessions. He said he'd help me improve my tennis game, too...I think it's plain to see that it was money well-spent even though I don't see much court time now!

After a few training sessions, we noticed that we enjoyed each other's company so we started spending time outside of the gym. Our first "date" was at Old Chicago after a session one night. After this, our visits became more frequent and after a time, we were both hooked. At this time, Mark politely asked me if it would be okay if we started dating officially. It was an offer I couldn't refuse and so, on September 27, 2002, Mark and MeLissa became an official couple.

During our time dating, Mark introduced/re-introduced me to many different experiences. Mark treated me to my first live Avalanche (hockey) game for my birthday after a yummy first experience at PF Changs! Mark also took me ice skating once as well. I fell down a lot, but I loved every minute of it! Shortly after that, I also tried skiing for, perhaps, the first and last time. Despite a terribly scary experience, I did like tubing and enjoyed the atmosphere of the ski town, so I may even agree to be a snow bunny in the future! My only requirement is that next time she goes, I don't want to be in between bouts of tonsillitis - since I had her tonsils removed about a week after the ski trip, this should be a piece of cake!

In the summer of 2003, Mark escorted took me to Maui (my first visit). I was enamored with the breathtaking views and with all the fun things there were to do and see. I enjoyed swimming in the ocean (except for once when Mark pushed me under for a large wave at small beach - there is a fish swimming around with a very cool pair of Bolle sunglasses now!) I also enjoyed meeting some of Mark's friends and visiting such sites as Tedeski Vinyards, Haleakala and the road to Hana (including the Seven Pools where we camped for a night much to my chagrin - I detest camping unless it involves a Holiday Inn...).

These memories pale in comparison to those of viewing my first sunrise on the beach on July 5, 2003, though. Despite my protests that I was on vacation and should be allowed to sleep at least until 7 am, I have to admit a more beautiful scene could not exist - the sand was smooth and the only footprints were ours. And, of course, the views of the sun peeking up above the palm trees and gradually lighting up the various island locations were breath taking. I took many pictures which now are some of our most cherished shots.

What made this morning the most memorable moment of our stay in Hawaii was that once the sun came up, Mark dropped to one knee (amid the patch of rocks you see in the picture above and to the right) and said that this morning would mark the beginning of our new life together if I would do him the honor of marrying him. I accepted and admired the beautiful sapphire and diamond ring he'd chosen just for me. The proposal and its timing were really special...even more so since Mark had asked my father for permission and had received his blessing. I couldn't have wished for a better surprise.

We informally announced our engagement to Mark's friends and family at Louis and Betsy Salazar's wedding that evening. We also called my parents and told them the happy news. We even bought an artist's painting of the spot where Mark proposed to commemorate the memory. It and another print of Mackenna beach currently reside in our bedroom. If you ever want a glimpse...just ask! :)

It's All About Mark Now!

Mark was born on the island of Maui in Hawaii one bright sunny day (we can assume) to parents Mike and Pat. He was the second of two boys who, no doubt, brought a lot of "excitement" into their parents' lives. Growing up on Maui with his brother, Michael, made for quite a memorable and happy childhood.

Mark is blessed with a strong spirit and a family that encourages him to try anything and everything that peaks his interest. Consequently, despite having been born with congenital aniridia (a condition where the iris in our eye - the part that opens and closes the pupil - never fully develops), Mark had a fun-filled childhood. Naturally, though, part of the fun was tormenting and heckling parents, teachers, coaches, friends and anyone else who came his way.

Mark's talents in sports were showcased on a regular basis. He was a great asset to his rowing team in high school - he caused quite a stir when he first began practicing and the boat wasn't going as it should. Everyone automatically assumed that Mark, the new guy, was the cause of the issue - imagine their surprise when they learned that Mark was the cause, but it was because he was overpowering the rest of the team! Mark also excelled in soccer, cycling and competitive running. He can hold his head high anytime he takes friends and family up the slope of Haleakala (the volcano on Maui from which gorgeous sunrises are to be seen) because he rode his bike all the way to the top! He has also won several awards in various road races and other competitions.

After high school, Mark chose the University of Northern Colorado (is it a coincidence that MeLissa went to the University of Southern Colorado? - you decide!) as his new stomping ground. While there, he pursued a degree in Kinesiology and competed in weight lifting. He also gained a reputation for throwing the best parties ever with buddies Dwayne and Keola. This was an excellent way to not only have a fun time, but also to pay the rent!

Once Mark finished his degree, he moved to Colorado Springs where he had secured an internship as a personal trainer at the YMCA. While there, he decided to add to his list of professional talents and enrolled in Massage School. As always, Mark took it upon himself to practice, practice, practice so when the time came for graduation he was a real pro. After massage school, Mark worked at 24 Hour Fitness as a personal trainer - a job which would change his life forever (see our next post to find out how)!

Mark is currently enrolled in Life West Chiropractic College in Hayward, California. He is looking forward to graduation in just a little less than a year. During his stint in school he has faced many challenges head on, not the least of which was losing what little vision he had to dual retinal detachments.

With the end in sight, Mark is excited to get out there and help people feel there best and to tackle his next big challenge - being a daddy! Once the baby is here and he's finished his studies, he hopes to do some travelling with his family.

All About MeLissa

MeLissa was born and raised in Colorado by her parents Larry and Ginger. She and her two younger brothers, Christopher and Douglas, were quite fortunate to have their mom stay home to watch over them. Since dad was also easily accessible at his appliance store, love and support was always readily available.

MeLissa excelled in both academics and extracurricular activities. She was well-known for her talents as a vocalist and her dramatic abilities (she even won drama student of the year for her portrayal of Cinderella's wicked stepmother in 7th grade). She participated in activities with an academic slant such as Knowledge Bowl and Mathcounts and served for many years in student council. MeLissa also is known for her exceptional domestic skills. Of all the activities in which she participated, she liked show choir best (she even still has one of her outfits though she doubts she'll ever wear it in public...).

After graduating from high school, MeLissa (who was voted Most Likely to Succeed Girl) attended the University of Southern Colorado in Pueblo, Colorado, where she obtained her Bachelors of Science and Masters degrees in Business Administration through a dual degree program (i.e., she took graduate level classes and got credit for both her undergrad and graduate degrees). MeLissa was active in student government, participated in dramatic productions and performed in the university's wind ensemble - she always thought before she graduated that she never had enough time to get everything she wanted to done!

Prior to graduation, MeLissa embarked upon a foreign exchange in France. She spent half of her time in Southern France near the Mediterranean and half her time in the Alsace region near Germany and Switzerland. She also spent enough time in Paris to fall in love with its antique architecture and picturesque cityscapes. She returned from her trip fairly fluent...so much so that sometimes she'd lapse into speaking in French much to the chagrin of her family who were quick to remind her that they couldn't understand a word she was saying! Lucky for Mark, she pretty much only does this when she's dreaming in French now...which he does find amusing!

MeLissa began preparing for the CPA exam after she returned from France and received her degrees. Despite a nasty car accident which took place one night as she returned home to Lamar from her CPA review course in Colorado Springs, MeLissa walked out of the CPA exam confident that she'd passed. Some who weren't aware that MeLissa's always been pretty good at "knowing" what kind of a grade she'd achieved, said it sounded "like a pretty big Christmas wish-list.") Shortly after the exam, MeLissa found her first job in Colorado Springs - her preferred location. Eventually, she ventured into the area of tax preparation...

In August 2003, MeLissa moved to California with Mark so that he could follow his dream to become a chiropractor. In California, MeLissa was hired by Pacific Gas and Electric Company where she served in both the Capital and Corporate Accounting Departments. She transferred to a position with Safeway's Tax Department a while later.

Since June 2006, MeLissa has been self-employed as a wedding and event consultant. She owns Winsome Events - a professional consulting firm serving the Bay Area and beyond. She really enjoyed her new "job" which used both her creative and business talents and offered more fun opportunities for interacting with people than accounting typically does. She also appreciated the flexibility it offered so that she could be more responsive to Mark's needs.

Since discovering in September that she and Mark were going to be parents, MeLissa has returnd to her tax preparation roots (accounting is a little more dependable as far as paychecks go). She hasn't yet decided whether she'll continue to pursue the wedding business once the baby arrives...only time will tell. For now, she plans to offer primarily Day-Of Coordination services.

Aside from her work life, MeLissa enjoys nurturing and caring for her animal friends which have been numerous over the years. Of special note are Sonic the hedgehog (whom she briefly adopted from her brother's ex-wife) and, more importantly, Woodstock, Robin and Cocoa, her three birds. Woody (a blue Parakeet also known as a Budgie) and Robin (a Nanday Conure) were with MeLissa from 1994 through 2004 when they passed away within 4 months of one another prior to our wedding. Cocoa was part of her family for a much shorter time, but also was a joy. They are all deeply missed.

Filling some of the void left by these three dears are Pixie (and for a short time, Banshee), MeLissa and Mark's kitties, whom they adopted in 2004. Although she is no longer with us (she ran off in January of this year and hasn't been seen since), Banshee has an amusing back story which we encourage you to enjoy.

MeLissa enjoys traveling and is counting the days, months and years (well, actually, we're down to days and months, we think!) until Mark is finished with school so that she can introduce him and their new addition to Europe (especially her adopted family members in France) and so that they can travel to other exciting destinations together. At the top of her list are New Zealand, Italy, and Ireland.

MeLissa's Allergy List

Just in case anybody is curious here's the list:

Asparagus
Avocado
Banana
Barley
Kidney Bean
Carrots
Cashews
Cranberry
Egg
Garlic
Mustard
Onion
Peanut
Bell Pepper
Pineapple
Plum
Sweet Potato
White Potato
Radish
Rye
Soybean
Tomato
Wheat
Yam
Brewer's Yeast

The New Dance Dance Evolution Home

Here it is - the video you all can't get enough of (but which can get annoying when it comes on every time you visit the webpage) -

I give you Dance Dance Evolution!!!


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Welcome to Our Site!

Thanks for visiting our website! Now would be the perfect time to bookmark it so that you can visit often!

We created this site as a way to write our "story" down so that we can share our memories with others. Although you can easily jump in and start reading anywhere you like, our blogging began with some background information on each of us which you may find interesting. The June 2005 archive's "All About MeLissa" entry starts things off!


*Note: This was for quite a while an entry page to our site. We learned a little more about HTML and were able to move everything into our profile except for the lovely engagement photo you see here. We decided we'd keep the post in the blog so that this lovely shot would still be available for viewing. :)