V-Day on Tap...

Interesting that a post about Valentine's Day comes after a post about the Death Calculator, don't you think? For our single readers who are gnashing their teeth that V-Day (short for "I think I'm gonna vomit day" in MeLissa's single days) is fast approaching and for those married husbands and wives who are perplexed as to whether they should just go with "tradition" and bring home a dozen roses, a box of chocolates and a cheesy Hallmark card (and we all know that Hallmark is one of the biggest beneficiaries when it comes to this holiday, don't we?), we've found a couple of articles to make February 14 a bit more palatable and to help you get out of the gift giving rut...or at least provide comfort that you're not alone in your sentiments.

The first - "Why I Hate Valentine's Day" pretty much hits the bulls-eye as far as the single (and even some couple) sentiments regarding good ol' Heart Day. There's definitely a few stories that will make staying at home with a pint of Ben and Jerry's sound like the best time in the world! Our favorite part? The one where the girlie says that impromptu surprises are worth way more than roses and chocolates. There's something magical about a sweet little gift for no particular reason.

The second - "The 10 Worst V-Day Gifts" provides some great pointers regarding what not to give. Good information for singles and marrieds alike. MeLissa would just like to add for all the guys out there that Number 3 is definitely something to be followed at all times not just Valentine's Day if you're in a committed relationship but not married! The reaction that a beautiful necklace or pair of earrings should bring will be muted by the disappointment that the hopeful girlie will be feeling if she thought you were about to make a bigger statement!

One thing we think they forgot to mention, though, is giving hand made gifts such as cookies and cards. These are always a big hit with the guys, and show that you like 'em so much you're willing to make time to make something special just for them. That can definitely make a big hit without you having to drop anything more than a lot of cookie dough. Get creative! If you need a little inspiration, have a look at Martha Stewart's site - she has several innovative ideas to wow your sweetie! Finally, remember - there's no rule, guys and gals, that says you can't be your own valentine - make or buy yourself something if you're single. The ultimate payoff? You know whatever you choose, your recipient will love it!

Wishing you all a pleasant Valentine's Day regardless of your relationship status!